To many, phone sex is an experience that’s more awkward than sexy. But mastering the art of arousing your lover over the phone isn’t hard if you know the little sexy things that make the difference between an uncomfortable conversation and a sexy one.

[Read: 13 untold sex secrets you really need to know!

] Just so you know, almost always, phone sex isn’t planned ahead.

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And if both of you can talk horny without killing the mood, it would be the sexiest thing you could do with each other from a distance. Almost all couples have indulged in phone sex in some manner, more so at the start of a sexual relationship.

Have you ever told your lover how much you’re missing them over the phone, especially when you’re horny?

[Read: How to talk dirty to a guy and sound really sexy doing it] If you ever have, well, you’ve just initiated phone sex.

But what you say and how you sound after that line makes all the difference between a sexy orgasmic conversation and a dead end.

If you’re uncomfortable with the thought of having phone sex with your lover because the whole idea seems awkward, start by texting naughty.

And just when things start to heat up, call your lover up and continue the conversation over the phone.

[Read: 20 sexy naughty text messages to initiate phone sex] Why should you have phone sex when you can just have sex instead? If you have sex in the same missionary position for a few years without talking dirty or fantasizing in bed, sex can definitely start to feel like a chore that’s best avoided.

Why is making out in public or groping each other in a car more exciting?

Well, that’s because our mind craves for new sexual experiences that can heighten the arousal all the time.

[Read: Top 50 kinky sex ideas to have a sexually exciting relationship] Just like that, phone sex can give you the much needed variety and the heightened sense of arousal, especially when both of you aren’t around each other.

And if both of you are in a long distance relationship, phone sex plays a crucial part in keeping both of you satisfied sexually, and can help reduce the odds of cheating on each other.